Saturday, August 4, 2012

The Personal Side of Oppression

The memory that I have of oppression is experiencing how my mother sacraficed to provide a better life for her children. She struggled not by choice, but because she was not priviliged at all. She worked several jobs to break the cycle of poverty that she experienced as she raised her children in a low income envrironment. She was able to overcome this oppression because of her will power and ability to avoid the self-hate that often follows oppression. I believe that in this situation equity was diminished because as a child she did not have the same experiences as others because she grew up in poverty. She did not have an equal opportunity for education and she was also a teen mother. This incident brought feelings of sadness to me, but it also made me realize that I would have to work hard to have a better life. I know that nothing will be handed to me and knowing this has allowed me to work hard to earn the things that I desire. Because of my mother's experience I believe that she has turned her past situation into something positive and has influenced her children and grandchildren  to work hard. She also pursued her education and maintained great work ethics throughout her life.

5 comments:

Temeka.Thatch said...

Shevia,
Thank you for sharing. I too experienced oppression by watching my mother sacrifice to provide a better life for her children. I am proud to say that because of her determination she was able to get out of poverty.

MUDPIES said...

Hi Shevia,

We as black people are used to dealing with external oppression, now through the text we know that their is internal oppression. As a 51 year old, I can say that I have experienced both as I'm sure your mom has. However, now that it has a name, now that I know the symptoms and the cause; I can do something about it. I urge you to share what we've learned to any and everybody who will listen...including your mom.

Brandee K. Pierce said...

Hi Shevia:

I enjoyed reading your post. It was very inspiring! Your mom has my deepest respect because she still faught hard for hers despite of what she did not have. I always love hearing stories like this. I commend you for making the choice to have a better life as well. I know there are great things for you up ahead! God bless...

Alicia Youngs said...

Shevia,

Great post! I think watching someone you love and admire work hard to provide you with a better life, makes you want to work hard to provide your children with an even better life. My mother struggled, as a single mother she worked full time and worked hard to provide my brother and I with the necessities of life. As a mother myself, I hope to provide my children with an even better life through hard work and determination.

Pitkin Family said...

I see and hear you and where you're coming from. I too believe you only get what you want out of life if you work your tail off for it... nothing is handed to you. People that do have everything handed to them don't truly understand the character that is produced from the tough decisions of poverty or trials. Thanks very much for sharing!